Transcription 2:Delete his (D:) or not?

Eva:
Hi, our topic is Delete his (D:) or not? It's about adult video. I'm Eva, and she is Vicky. I can't accept my lover to watch adult video. Although someone will think adult video is just an entertainment, like girls go shopping to spend their time. But in fact, I think watching adult video must bring some bad influence. So in my opinion, I do really care so just delete. And these are the reason why I can't support this issue.

Although we know adult video is just a commodity, if you keep watching, it will cause an addiction, so it will make you couldn't tell reality from the fantasy. And next may influence you and your lover, like ignore your lover just like keep going watch adult video and didn't want to date with your lover. Adult video is just a drama, easy to say, it is fake, so it may express wrong information about sex. Finally it will influence your life.

I want to talk about the situation of people who watched adult video in Taiwan. According to the search from Taipei Woman Rescue Foundation, the frequency of watching adult video in Taiwan is the highest rate in the world. But most of people in Taiwan were not be satisfied with their sex life. Here, this is Taiwan, and this is America, and last one is Europe. Just look at it. So I think watching adult video would really affect people and their lovers, of course not just in their sexual life. And this form is talk about people who watch adult video more, would cause over illusion in their life easier. Like this one, if you walking on the road, and saw sexy woman or handsome boy, you will watch their bottom first, and more want to have sex with them.

And next I will show a video to you guys, it is about the difference between porn sex and real sex. This video is very famous in YouTube, you guys all saw that they used vegetables and fruits to replace some sexual scene. And I want to show you another video, is HuffPost, they saw that video and they inspired by the video, and they spoke to woman who worked in porn industry and asked them to share what's the difference between porn sex and real sex. Here's the first woman, she called Jincey, and she is a sex officer in some sexual website. And second woman, she is a adult video actress in America, she is very famous, too. So, the host will asked her the question. After saw these two videos, I want to tell you my conclusion. Number one, would rather say no than pretend to accept it. Because some girls will say "I can accept my boyfriend to watch adult video but don't show me or you can see adult video but I can't watch together with you". But one day, if you go home, and you opened the door, and you saw this scene, you might be embarrassed. That's means you are not really don't care. So I think you can just talked to your lover and told him to delete adult video. And second is should spend more time with your lover. Last one is don't let adult video to become you two problem. Next one is Vicky.

Vicky:

Hi, I am Vicky, and I am standing on the supporting side of this issue. When talking about adult video, people in Taiwan always put a negative tag on it. Just like it is dirty, it is not a right thing or it will do nothing right for the teenagers. But, why is so serious about it? There are some reasons that people said why they watch adult videos. The first is that they need to vent their physiological needs. Because for men who have girlfriends, it is not always the proper time for them when they have a need. Maybe their girlfriends didn’t feel well. Second, because they are bored. They just watch it as a film. And they may are curiosity, adding desire and consuming.

I will show two examples about the couples who said that they accept their lovers watch adult videos. First, you can see on the top of the PowerPoint is Cool Dad and Cool Mom. They have married for more than twenty years and have children. They said that they believe watch adult videos could promote their feelings in their relationship. When their son turned to teenager, they also let their son to watch adult videos. Because they think that instead of forbidding their son to it, they would rather let him watch and discuss with them and tell him the difference between reality and the truth. The couple under the PowerPoint is the younger, Mia and Echo. In the interview, Echo, the man, said that sometimes his needs are too frequent, so he would download the adult videos beforehand, and he would watch them when Mia was not at home or Mia was taking a shower. Because he thought that his needs are too frequent, it is a problem for him. He always needs it, his girlfriend would feel tired. They would also watch adult videos together to promote their feeling in their relationship.

I will show you an interesting photo. The words on it said that ”Porn movie and Disney are responsible for the most frustrated human being I know. ” The girl said that where the hell is my prince charming? The boy said that where the hell is my insatiable whore? It is interesting to compare Disney and adult videos. Because in our minds, Disney is about fairy tale for children to read or watch. But, exactly, if people are too addicted to them, no matter is Disney or adult videos, it will also influence their real lives, even is Disney. Because the girl may think that she would just stay at home and her prince would come and save her. So, it is on the same balance. If people are too addicted to something, it will lead to the same ending; it would influence your life, not just the adult videos.

If we have to talk about the influence, then how about these exciting movies? As we call 爽片in Chinese. Like Seediq Bale, if people watch it, maybe when they see Nod, they would want to cut off Nod’s head. Transformers, it is full of fighting and the Fast and Furious, it is talking about driving fast and dangerous, and people would think it is a cool thing to drive fast, or you would have girlfriend if you drive fast. So I think that it is not an influence for adult videos. If you have to say this, the exciting movies on the movie theater would also have these influences. 


Q&A

Eric:
Hi, I want to ask Eva. I love your videos and your ppt's structure. But I'm sensitive a little bit about sexual discrimination, because all the ppt give me a a feeling that is always be man will watch adult videos. I want to ask your opinion about that.

Eva:
When I write my annotation 1 or 2 or 3, there always someone, I don't know who, always leave a message like yours, why is not girls watching adult video. But I found my information on website, one comment I saw that is most of adult video is just really for man, so I just take most part of this situation, maybe I can use why woman watch adult video this kind of situation to write my annotation 4, thank you.

Knot:
I think compare to Eva's presentation, your presentation is also funny but not as active as Eva's, you guys are all really great but I think Eva is more shiny powerpoint, and yours like a good powerpoint, but is just a good powerpoint. I think the way Eva use video is great, and when she cut it very properly, it won't slowly down the path, you can ask her.

Cassie:
I think both of your powerpoint are clearly, but sometime your voice are too fast for us to understand. For Eva, you sometime talked too fast and for Vicky, I think sometimes your voice is too murky for me, sometimes you just combine the words together. Thank you.

Niki:
I think Vicky's point is more convince, compare to Eva's.

Tony:
Because we think Eva point out many ideas, but Vicky all defense her points well. And she mentioned clearly. And we think Vicky seems convince us more.

Joanne:

I think it is convincing. Because I think Eva’s part is from the perspective of male. But I also think many females watch porn videos. You said the different from the real sex and the video sex. But the video sex is different, is like a fantasy. Everyone want to watch the big one, (I don’t know how to say), I think it is not a bad thing.