Source1: Porn Sex vs Real Sex: The Differences Explain With Food
Source2:Does Porn Affect Our Real-World Sex Lives? | HPL
My third source is a video which I found on YouTube, after I typed "adult video" as my key word. This video wanted to express the difference between porn sex and real sex by using some vegetables like cucumbers, papayas, and bananas to replace some sexual scene of adult video which compare with reality life. And it was so popular that about ten millions of people had been watched that.
The Huff Post, which has a live show, disgusting some hot issue and have a channel on YouTube. Inspired by the video, HuffPost Live spoke to women working in the porn industry, and asked them to share what they believe the difference between porn sex and real sex is.
In the video, they invited two women to express their opinions. First is Jincey Lumpkin, Chief Sexy Officer of Juicy Pink Box, mentioned that most of the scene in adult video made by posturing for the camera, flattering angles and cutting together of the scenes. All of which, if reenacted by normal people, can "take away sometimes from the pleasure and enjoyment aspect" of their sexual experiences.
Second guest is Nina Hartley, an adult video actress, also agreed that is very different between porn sex and real sex. "Pornography is a paid, professional performance by actors. It is a fantasy, it is not meant to be a rulebook and guidebook or a how to as a general rule. And it goes to show how poor our sex education is in this country that people are reduced to looking at an entertainment medium for information about the body", she replied to the host.
So I think women and men will hopefully realize that they don't have to force themselves to emulate what they see in porn films. Fantasy is great, but the reality of sex based on one's own desires and separate from the pressure to look or act a certain way can be even better.