Annotation2:Delete his (D:) or not?

Source1:台灣女性看A片幻想帥哥光溜溜 男生只想做愛

Source2:台灣人愛看A片卻最不性福

After finished our presentation last week, I tried to find more sources to prove my suggestion. This time is not only the source which on academic research, but about public's opinion. So I found something interesting information on the Internet.

I found a news which said there is a group called Taipei Women's Rescue Foundation was going to have a survey. This organization wanted to know the mind of people who watched adult videos, so they asked for "adult-video volunteer" first, of course the volunteers were anonymous, and their job was watching adult video together, and then filled out the questionnaire. After their coordination, they convened a press conference, and showed the results about "The Situation of People Who Watched Adult Videos in Taiwan" and "Transnational Report about Watching Adult Videos". 

According to the data, the rate of the minority in Taiwan who watched adult videos was up to 90%, the frequency of watching adult videos was also the top among many countries. The research also indicated that the frequency of watching adult videos was higher, or the more exaggerative plots people who likes, it might influence the intimate relationship between couples more, too. Even caused their sexual life.

                     ↑Source2: Taiwanese like to watch adult videos more than other countries, but                            have worse satisfaction of sexual life.

As this source, in my opinion, adult videos really do affect the couple's life, no matter people who addicted to adult videos or not. Someone would say that they did not care about their lovers who watched adult videos, so long as "can't let them know". But why? The truth is, if you went back to home one day, and saw your lover was watching adult videos right now, did you really feel nothing about this situation? Base on this public inquiry, many people admitted that they were disturbed about they kept using adult videos over a long period time and tried to decrease the times. Despite men or women, watching adult videos will cause some fantasy illusion when they get together with their real lovers. For example, after they watched adult videos, women would want to see a naked man; men would like to have an intimate relationship with women. (Source1)

       ↑Source1:Adult videos' influence in our life.

So I think every couples should really take watching adult videos serious because it might become your big problem one day.  

Transcription:Delete his (D:) or not?

Vicky:

      Hello, everyone. Our topic is “Delete his D drive or not”. First, I want to tell you a story. I have two friends and they are couples, and one day they have an argue and then they broke up. The girl came to tell me that the reason. Because one day found that there are some adult films in the boy’s cellphone. She couldn’t understand her boyfriend had those films in his cellphone. So she asked her boyfriend, and her boyfriend said it is usual for men have adult videos in their cellphones. But my girlfriend didn’t accept answer, because she thinks that why you have adult films in the cellphone when you have girlfriend? So they have a very furious fight. After that, one day, my girlfriend deleted her boyfriend’s adult films all in his cellphone. The boy was really really really angry. But I didn’t know that his angry part is because his girlfriend deleted the adult films or because he thought that his girlfriend didn’t respect him to delete his files and didn’t tell him. This is my story. One day, when Eva and I are very very confusing about our topic, we think about it, and this is why we want to do about this topic, and Eva will ask you some question.

Eva:

      HI,I am Eva. I am going to ask you guys some questions. “Can you accept your boyfriend or girlfriend to watch adult videos when you are together or in the relationship. If you accept, please raise your hand. And if you can not accept this ,please raise your hand. So this is very clear, I am the opposition and she is agreeing with this issue.

Vicky:

      I want to ask Kevin a question, Kevin, may I ask you question? I want ask your opinion about our topic.

Kevin:

      I just think that too much adult films is not good for me.

Vicky and Eva:

      Our topic is about your lover.

Kevin:

      @#$%. I am afraid she will compare me to the 12344?

Eva:

      And I want to ask Niki, why you accept your boyfriend watch adult videos?

Niki:

      I don’t think it is false to watch adult videos.

Eva:

      So maybe you think you are prettier than the girl?

Niki:

      It is different. It is just like watching a movie, but you can’t touch that.

Eva:

      So, now, we are going to say our opinion in this issue. Vicky first.

Vicky:

      It is clearly that I am standing on the agree side of this topic. Because there are lots of discussions about this issue on Internet, like PTT or the discussion boards on every forum. Lots of girls ask why my boyfriends watch adult videos when he is with me. In my sources, there are lots of responses that the boys need to vent physiological needs. If the girls think that why comes when he needs it. But I think it is not correct, because girls may have some problems, maybe they are tired, maybe they don’t in a good mood, maybe they are in the period. If the men want, but it is not the proper time for his girlfriend, I think it is an easier and more convenient way to vent his need. This is one of my opinions.

Eva:

      Now is my opinion. I am the opposition. I found a website which is published by Daisy Hung (洪蘭), the person who study in brain. She talks about people’s addition. After I read her paragraph, I think maybe watch adult videos can generate sexual addition. The paragraph she talks is that some people may say adult videos can provide people the pleasure, very enjoy feeling and also can liberate from their sexual tensions. But people who addicted to adult videos, I think he will long for it, and whatever he likes or not, because he just has this addition. And I think if one person watches adult video, he may have addition and take this thing as a routine. Maybe this will make the girl thinks “oh! You just like to watch people making love and didn’t do anything with me or not.”  

Vicky:

      And there is another my opinion, there is another sources in my blogger. The article is about people watching adult videos. The writer has done a research about why people watch adult videos. Her research shows that about fifty present people who respond that they watch adult videos because they are boring. This research also asked about the time, and most responds say that they watch it before they go to sleep. Some may not understand why you watch adult videos before you go to sleep. But one of my friends said that when you girls are boring, you may gather and go shopping, or maybe you watch the soap opera or the Korea opera on the computer. So why can’t he watch adult videos when he is boring or before he goes to sleep? Because he thought that this pleasure is the same, it is just a tool to kill time.

Eva:

      And I also found another source that the girls may think adult video is still a commodity, like adult videos should include some unrealistic or many over actions or plots to fascinate viewers. So adult videos are just for commerce. The girlfriend may think boys like to watch adult videos maybe he wants to learn some skills from adult video to teach their girlfriend, so maybe this behavior will hurt girlfriends’ heart. Some thoughts may appear in their mind, for example “my body was not good enough” or “adult video actress are prettier than me”. Girlfriends will think their boyfriends may fall into the unrealistic world, and just didn’t want to date with the real person like would rather watching adult video continued than dating with their girlfriends.

Vicky:

      And we are going to talk about our opinions, before that we talked was public opinions, and here we are going to talk about our opinion in this issue. In my opinion, I think it was okay for my boyfriend to watch adult video, because I think that it doesn’t matter. Maybe lots of adult video is really exaggerating and over. But if we are mature enough and we can tell reality from virtual I think is okay. And people all have desire, so if it is an easy and convenient way to vent desire, why not? Because I am grow, I don’t want to make sex with you for other reasons, so I think this is a way to have the best of both world. It is a proper way to solve problem without may have some fights or argue.

Eva:

      And in my opinion is some girls may ask the question on the Internet and some users may response them that “Rather let your boyfriend watch adult video without make an extramarital affair.” I think maybe he will not really to find an adult video actress to be his new girlfriend, but I think this will make him a spiritual affair, like fall in love with AV actress in mind. This behavior will ignore me and did not care about my feeling. So I think why not sit down with me and we talk about why you are boring or why you can’t go shopping with your friends too or why can’t watch a movie with me. Let’s all.

Vicky:
      This is our presentation, thank you. 

Annotation1:save the (D:) or lover?

Source1:改變是大腦的天性
Source2:每次都為了看A片跟男友吵架
Source3:台灣男生冷落女友

With my argument on "Should  men and women accept their lover to watch the adult video or not?", I found  some sources to prove my opposition.
I found a website made by a famous brain scientist 洪蘭 in Taiwan. And in the website she introduced  her book which discussed about brain's every reaction. According to one of paragraph in this book, it talked about "people's addiction". 

It mentioned that through some experiments, our brain's plasticity was related to dopamine(多巴胺). When our nerve received the instruction from cerebrum and then complete it, dopamine could let the nerve get more stable. Easy to say, the more dopamine, the connection of nerve would get more tight, this is the reason why we have addition. And once this kind of energy accumulate too much on nerve, it will cause an irreversible change, that means even people get rid of addiction eventually, brain will still memorize this influence. 

So my opinion is "sexual addiction" is without exception as well, I think people was addicted to watch adult video probably. 

Another point connect in above-mentioned paragraph, it said "Some people say that adult video provide people a healthy pleasure, can liberated from the sexual tension, however adult video is addictive, and provide resistance, actually it may reduce the feeling of happiness. People who addicted to adult video will long for adult video but don't like it; people who continued to watch adult video will think their lover were unattractive, and would rather watch adult video than dating with real person." It means that adult video may let people cannot tell reality from fantasy.

Further, in fact this issue is a trouble to the girls mostly. Because of this worry, they will try to ask some advise on the Internet after their lover did not consider their annoyance as a problem.(source2) Then usually they will get some users' responses that told them to understand their lover, even told them"Rather let your boyfriend watch adult video without make an extramarital affair." These kind of opinion usually make girls compromise. Someone may also said that watching adult video was just for physiological needs. But why especially someone already had a beloved still need to rely on watching adult video? There is another news about this issue.(source3) 

Even if watching adult video won't be addiction to everyone, does this behavior won't let people fall into the fictitious and porn world? After all adult videos are still commodities, a commercial practices, include many unrealistic and exaggerating content to fascinate viewer. So I convinced that watching adult videos could generate some over illusion. Therefore, this topic is not only against on "man" watch adult video, is about your "lover" who need to watch adult video as before would might cause influence between your relationship.

Delete his (D:) or not?

What does the title means? At present has an unwritten rules in young people’s world that “there is no man who had not ever watched the adult videos before.” And as this rules, online friends just used (D:) to represent the place where man save the adult videos. And this title might become every girlfriend’s thoughts. So we are going to discuss about an issue that do the girls should accept their boyfriends watch adult videos or not.

What’s adult video’s definition to everyone? A rudimentary product, an entertainment, or a tool use to vent physiological needs. The above-mention might be possible. So some man watch adult video because of their curiosity, some just watch video for actress sexy body, and other some guys just want satisfy their desire. Then some girlfriends may think, if a man has had a lover, the real love then why should still watch adult video. This kind of thoughts will let some girls feel strange, a couple could do any things no matter mental or physiological. If their boyfriends continue to watch adult video, isn’t that on behalf of their girlfriends are dissatisfied, for example their stature and semblance. Sometimes this topic would cause an argument between the couple, because man generally deny the woman every doubt. So woman might want their boyfriend to try to decrease the times on watching videos, or even should not watch any more, so just delete his (D:) RIGHT NOW!